all agesMotivating Kids With A ‘Loving Push’ When Tristan was three, he started Pivotal Response Training. At the time, he hardly spoke. So, like any good parent, while we waited for him to take this first verbal step, we took care of all the others that would By Shalini Sawhny Braxhoofden
autismEcholalia Means Living Inside A Pixar Movie It was a rainy afternoon. Tristan and I had been walking down the sidewalk when he dropped his ball and it rolled into the street. He lunged after it – right into oncoming traffic, had I not grabbed onto him. By Shalini Sawhny Braxhoofden
autismAutism and Language and the Beauty of Speaking Literally It was a rainy autumn, when Tristan potty trained. Autistic kids can have trouble learning to listen to their bodies, and it had been a veritable cha-cha-cha that had frustrated us all – a few steps forward, setbacks and then By Shalini Sawhny Braxhoofden
autismThe Long Wait for First Words I remember the moment of Tristan’s first words clearly. He was in my aunt’s garden in Pune when he came face-to-face with the family canine. “Dog,” he said. We were delighted. We practically threw a party. He was two and By Shalini Sawhny Braxhoofden
autismFinding Our Balance After Autism When my husband and I were newlyweds, we seemed to have an almost telepathic connection. We would say things at the same time, make the same decisions independently. We seldom felt the need to discuss or compromise; the rare occasions By Shalini Sawhny Braxhoofden
autismAn Au‑some New Year When I was a teenager and into my twenties, the months leading up to New Year’s Eve brought so much anticipation. It was the one evening of the year that we were allowed to stay out all night and party By Shalini Sawhny Braxhoofden
autismNow And Then: What I Know About Autism I met my husband at my neighbourhood watering hole, “The Warbler.” I was between flights, as part of the cabin crew for Gulf Air. Who would have guessed that two years later, we would be married. Five years later, we’d By Shalini Sawhny Braxhoofden