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Sonali Gupta
Childhood Trauma And Its Effect On Adults
I once treated a young female client who had difficulty concentrating, a history of getting into abusive relationships, and difficulty recognizing unhealthy people or situations. In the course of therapy, we were able to trace these symptoms back to sexual abuse
The Balancing Act: ‘How Do I Use My 5‑Year‑Old’s Holiday Time?’
Summer Scheduler: Summer holidays are beginning, and I’m worried. What summer activities for kids will utilize my 5-year-old’s time and energy? Sonali: To begin with, let me tell you most parents share a similar sentiment. Children can be quite a handful over the
The Balancing Act: ‘She Is Happier With The Nanny Than Me’
Every other week, Sonali Gupta draws on more than 10 years of experience as a clinical psychologist to give advice to readers with questions about parenting, family dynamics, relationships, mental health, and more. What’s Wrong With Mum? My 2-year-old has become very attached to
Explaining Homosexuality to Children? Get Help from Fairy Tales
I typically like to include lots of research in my articles. I enjoy researching a topic, reading about what studies have revealed, and sharing that information so parents have a factual basis for their decisions and actions. But this article
The Balancing Act: ‘He Wants To Explore Polyamory; I Don’t’
Every other week, Sonali Gupta draws on more than 10 years of experience as a clinical psychologist to give advice to readers with questions about parenting, family dynamics, relationships, mental health, and more. One Too Many: My husband and I disagree when it
The Balancing Act: ‘My Perfectionism Gets In The Way Of My Parenting’
Every other week, Sonali Gupta draws on more than 10 years of experience as a clinical psychologist to give advice to readers with questions about parenting, family dynamics, relationships, mental health, and more. Picture Perfect: I have always been a high achiever, and my
The Balancing Act: ‘My Husband Feels He Must Discipline Me By Hitting Me’
Every other week, Sonali Gupta draws on more than 10 years of experience as a clinical psychologist to give advice to readers with questions about parenting, family dynamics, relationships, mental health, and more. Danger Signs: I’m married for five years and I face domestic
Coworker Affairs Are Easier than Ever. But Should You Have One?
“Today’s workplace has become the new danger zone of romantic attraction and opportunity,” writes Shirley P. Glass, PhD, in her new book on infidelity, NOT “Just Friends”. Glass, whom the New York Times has called the “godmother of infidelity research” is
The Balancing Act: ‘My 2‑Year‑Old Doesn’t Speak At All’
Every other week, Sonali Gupta draws on more than 10 years of experience as a clinical psychologist to give advice to readers with questions about parenting, family dynamics, relationships, mental health, and more. Soft-Spoken Son: My 2-year-old son does not speak at all. He
The Balancing Act: ‘I Have No Knowledge Of Their Lives On Social Media’
Every other week, Sonali Gupta draws on more than 10 years of experience as a clinical psychologist to give advice to readers with questions about parenting, family dynamics, relationships, mental health, and more. Out of The Loop: I’m a parent to children who are
The Balancing Act: ‘How Can I Make My Child A Confident Adult?’
Every other week, Sonali Gupta draws on more than 10 years of experience as a clinical psychologist to give advice to readers with questions about parenting, family dynamics, relationships, mental health, and more. Looking Ahead: I have a 3-year-old boy. My concern is, how