Dads get a lot of flak for being “hands off” compared to moms—but things are changing, and a lot of dads are updating their role beyond breadwinner.

While a chiseled jawline or a well-kept stubble doesn’t hurt, we think the #HottestDads are the men who support their spouses and make their kids a priority.

This Father’s Day we’re celebrating the dads who make it to every dance recital, who cook breakfast for the family, who turn off their phones and computer after work hours. Look around, spot the #HottestDads you know, and nominate them in our contest (via Facebook or Twitter), telling us what makes them worthy of the title.

And don’t forget visit The Swaddle the week before Father’s Day (21 June) to vote for your favorite #HottestDads!