Globally, the Same, Damaging Gender Norms are Ingrained by Age 10
Rich and poor, East and West, kids take to heart rigid gender stereotypes by their preteens
Whether a child lives in Baltimore, Beijing, Nairobi or New Delhi, the onset of adolescence triggers a surprisingly common set of rigidly enforced gender expectations that are linked to increased lifelong risks of everything from HIV and depression, to violence and suicide. That’s the main finding from a groundbreaking study by the Global Early Adolescent Study, a collaboration between the Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health and the World Health Organization to examine how children on the cusp of adolescence perceive growing up as a boy or girl.
Researchers drew on interviews with adolescents and data from 15 high-, low- and middle-income countries. They found the same, general culturally enforced gender stereotypes long associated with an increased risk of mental and physical health problems become firmly rooted between the ages of 10 and 14.
“We found children at a very early age — from the most conservative to the most liberal societies — quickly internalize this myth that girls are vulnerable and boys are strong and independent,” said Robert Blum, director of the Global Early Adolescent Study based at Johns Hopkins University. “And this message is being constantly reinforced at almost every turn, by siblings, classmates, teachers, parents, guardians, relatives, clergy and coaches.”
A “gender straitjacket” for girls and boys…
The conversations conducted by the researchers revealed that, around the world, young boys and girls are outfitted with “gender straitjackets” at a very early age, with lifelong negative consequences that are particularly perilous for girls. The researchers found that gender-based restrictions rationalized as “protecting” girls actually made them more vulnerable by emphasizing subservience and implicitly sanctioning even physical abuse as punishment for violating norms. They observed that “in many parts of the world” these stereotypes leave girls at greater risk of dropping out of school or suffering physical and sexual violence, child marriage, early pregnancy, HIV and other sexually transmitted infections.
For example, the researchers found boys in both New Delhi and Shanghai talked about being encouraged to spend time outside of the home in unsupervised exploration of their environment, while girls said they were advised to stay home and do chores. Shaming and beatings for those who sought to cross the divide were reported by girls and boys in both cities. In all but one city, Edinburgh, Scotland, both boys and girls were clear that it was the boy who had to take the initiative in any relationship. Across all settings, young girls reported a constant emphasis on their physical appearance and their bodies as their key asset.
“In New Delhi, the girls talked about their bodies as a big risk that needs to be covered up, while in Baltimore girls told us their primary asset was their bodies and that they need to look appealing — but not too appealing,” Mmari said.
The researchers noted that their findings bore out conclusions from previous work that “during adolescence, the world expands for boys and contracts for girls.”
… and danger for boys who shrug it off …
But the researchers note that boys do not emerge unscathed. They point out that the stereotypes they learn in early adolescence — the emphasis on physical strength and independence — make them more likely to be the victims of physical violence and more prone to tobacco and other substance abuse, as well as homicide. Also, when researchers examined attitudes about gender roles among young adolescents in China, India, Belgium and the United States, they found a growing acceptance for girls pushing against certain gender boundaries, but almost zero tolerance for boys who do.
In all four countries, it appeared to be increasingly acceptable — to varying degrees — for girls to engage in certain stereotypically male behaviors, like wearing pants, playing sports and pursuing careers. But the researchers report that “boys who challenge gender norms by their dress or behavior were by many respondents seen as socially inferior.” Both boys and girls told researchers that the consequences for boys who were perceived as adopting feminine behavior, like painting their nails, ranged from being bullied and teased with harsh epithets to being physically assaulted.
Even if the dial has moved some for girls, there’s still a long way to go for both genders.
… in a slowly changing world
“We know from research studies and programmatic experience that unequal gender norms can be changed, but this takes carefully planned and implemented interventions that target both young people and the environment they are growing and developing in,” said V. Chandra Mouli, MBBS, MSc, co-director and scientist at the Adolescents and at-Risk Populations Team, Reproductive Health and Research Department, World Health Organization.
Mmari noted that while many of the gender stereotypes documented in the study are not surprising, the fact they are so common across cultures and economic status — and ingrained in children at such a relatively young age — is unexpected. Indeed, the anecdotes from India are unlikely to surprise any parents here, it’s the age at which these attitudes are set that make it so shocking. Most parents think they have more time to lay the groundwork for an equal perception of gender. Which means we need to make better use of the time we have.
“Change can happen, but it requires political will and a variety of interventions,” Blum said, noting that until 1979, only a few states in the United States had laws against marital rape. “It also requires the knowledge that children pick up on these gender mythologies at a very young age and they proceed to play out in a variety of ways — often damaging — for the rest of their lives.”