Flares of IntimacyHow I Have Sex: ‘When the Flare‑Ups Are Bad… I’ve Had to Go to the Washroom Mid‑Sex’ This month in "How I Have Sex," 34-year-old G. shares her story of experiencing sexual intimacy as someone living with ulcerative colitis. By The Swaddle Team
Beyond ShameHow I Have Sex: ‘Sex is Not Salvation, Marriage is Not Heaven, and Singleness is Not Hell’ This month in 'How I Have Sex,' a 42-year-old pastor shares his story on abstinence and how it shaped his outlook of sexual desire. By The Swaddle Team
Blurred IntimacyHow I Have Sex: ‘With My [Visual] Disability, I Can’t Sense What My Partner Wants – They Have to Say It’ This month in How I Have Sex: 23-year-old Rakshit recounts their experience of navigating intimacy while living with partial blindness. By The Swaddle Team
Life Beyond StigmaHow I Have Sex: ‘I Worry the Other Person May Get Infected [With HIV] Because of Me’ This month in How I Have Sex: 36-year-old R. talks about navigating intimacy and desire as someone living with HIV. By The Swaddle Team
Down to BusinessHow I Have Sex: ‘ADHD Makes Me Impatient, Which Sometimes Leads to Disappointing Sex’ This month in How I Have Sex: 23-year-old Mallika talks about balancing emotional intimacy and desire while living with ADHD. By The Swaddle Team
Disability and PleasureHow I Have Sex: ‘Masturbation Is More of a Headache Than Actual Pleasure’ This month in How I Have Sex: the sex life of 28-year-old P., as she talks about navigating intimacy as someone with cerebral palsy. By The Swaddle Team
Fat and SexyHow I Have Sex: ‘Fat People Don’t Only Have Missionary Sex in the Dark’ This month, we bring you the sex life of 30-year-old R, who talks about navigating sex and desire as someone who is fat. By The Swaddle Team
Rules of BondingHow I Have Sex: ‘I Don’t Enjoy the Feeling of Penetration, Even With a Finger’ This month, we bring you the sex life of 34-year-old V., as she talks about intimacy and attraction as an asexual. By The Swaddle Team
Pleasure Meets PainHow I Have Sex: ‘With Women, You’re Guaranteed to Cum; With Men, They’re Guaranteed to Cum’ This month, we bring you the sex life of 30-year-old K., as she adapts to living with lumbar scoliosis. By The Swaddle Team
Wine With No LabelsHow I Have Sex: ‘I Like Someone For Who They Are, Not What Their Genitals Look Like’ This month, we bring you the sex life of 25-year-old V., as she shares when she realized she was pansexual. By The Swaddle Team
It Gets BetterHow I Have Sex: ‘The Physical Pain From Lupus Used To Prevent Me From Having Sex’ This month in How I Have Sex: 30-year-old A. talks about navigating sex life with lupus. By The Swaddle Team
Open SesameHow I Have Sex: ‘I Became More Experimental With My Partner When I Started Seeing Other People’ This month in How I Have Sex: 34-year-old T. talks about attraction and desire in a polyamorous relationship. By The Swaddle Team
Drive And DesireHow I Have Sex: “I Can End Up Feeling Nothing Even When All the Right ‘Spots’ Are Touched” This month in How I Have Sex: the sex life of 27-year-old N., as she balances emotional intimacy and desire as a demisexual. By The Swaddle Team
Making Up For ItHow I Have Sex: ‘My Chronic Pain Feels Like a Flaw That I Have to Compensate For’ This month, we bring you the sex life of 30-year-old N.N., as she navigates a sex life with chronic pain. By The Swaddle Team
Accessing PleasureHow I Have Sex: ‘I Would Start Shaking…It’s Actually Very Scary For the Other Person’ This month, we bring you the sex life of 23-year-old M., as she navigates sexual intimacy while dealing with a seizure disorder. By The Swaddle Team
MisunderstoodHow I Have Sex: “I See a Tinge of Fear in the Other Person When I Voice My Desires” This month, we bring you the sex life of 24-year-old C., as he navigates his fluid play fetish. By The Swaddle Team
Orgasm AnxietyHow I Have Sex: ‘I’ve Hardly Ever Orgasmed Because I Get Too Scared’ This month in How I Have Sex, we bring you the sex life of 24-year-old Shubhangi, as she navigates her orgasm anxiety. By Rajvi Desai
All Kinds of SexHow I Have Sex: “I Hate it When People Say Vaginismus Needs to be ‘Fixed.'” This month, we bring you the sex life of 26-year-old M.F., as they navigate sexual intimacy while living with vaginismus. By Rajvi Desai
